love is more than i can give to u
it’s odd how we fall in love with people who do not fulfill our list. having the list can place unrealistic expectations on the other person and the relationship. Ps Ed said when you place the control in God’s hands, you will flow in His peace. It doesn’t really matter if he is not as bubbly, spontaneous, or ______________ (fill in the blank), because sometimes love is just this mysterious. You love the person despite the list. I can’t explain it. I don’t think anyone can.
Somethings you just gotta leave it to God’s control. Well it’s either God’s control, the devil’s control or yours. No brainer right?
So I threw out the list. I am not tailoring or custom-ordering a life-partner. To look out for though are emotional maturity, spiritual maturity, personal integrity, rootedness, AND a zest for life! Wouldn’t hurt if he’s nerdy-looking! They are always in!
